Mean Girls.

Im hoping most of my reader’s will be all over Mean Girls and may even be able to quote it. If not let me give you a quick run down … Cady Heron aka Lindsay Lohan, is a hit with The Plastics, the A-list girl clique at her new school, until she makes the mistake of falling for Aaron Samuels, the ex-boyfriend of alpha Plastic Regina George.
As you can imaging it becomes caty, total high school bitchy dramas and to add to it they have a ‘burn book’ that features all the fellow non plastic girls from the school oh and a boy or two.

Now I know your thinking why are you talking about Mean Girls Kate?!?

Well at the age of 30, I thought life had moved on since High School, But sadly it hasn’t. In the past 6mths I have really had an eye opening experience. Women, and I mean grown ass women who are successful in there own right, turning into Regina George, Gretchen Wieners & Karen Smith… That’s The Plastics aka Mean Girls.

You would think grown ass women would have better things to do with time and energy? Right?! I personally do but NO! Sadly, they love the drama and feel like they have the right to be part of The Plastics and have a right to say what they think about you and invade your life. I look at this and think, wouldn’t the time be best spent by putting that energy into work life or family life?! I know if I had all that spare time to be an out right bitch, my business would be at the next stage and kicking goals. Just saying!

When did women start attacking one another?!?
Im confused!!!!
I thought we were trying to support one another and empower each other to be the best we can be as successful business women and women of 2016?!?
Yes/No?!?
Oh by ‘attacking’ Im talking about all things negative by the way… back stabbing, gossip, stories, shady behaviour, disrespectful, disloyal, jealous.
Words hurt, words can change peoples opinions of other people and words make you look like the shadiest person ever! People also like to talk! So those words told in confidence always come out. If you can say something about someone close to you to others. They know you can’t be trusted. Cause most likely your going to do it to them. So not only are you hurting the person you are talking about cause let’s be honest someone’s going to tell them but you are also hurting your own reputation.
Im not here saying I’m perfect blah blah blah. Im far from perfect!
But BS is something I can’t stand… It does my head in and not only has it hurt myself recently but also people close to me. Im saying watch the words you use. I know “Mean Girls” all to well in real life, my tip… step back, close some doors and watch from a far with some popcorn. Karma is a bitch. They have sad little lives and will turn on each other eventually, which makes for great watching.

You do not deserve the energy draining drama in your life.
You deserve amazing men and women who love and support you! Who empowers you to be the best human you can be. They make you shine and stand next to you.

KB xx